| Quote #1 Matrimony, as the origin of change, was always disagreeable [...] (1.11) |
For Mr. Woodhouse, marriage is the one agent of change which can still trouble him.
| Quote #2 A woman is not to marry a man merely because she is asked, or because he is attached to her, and can write a tolerable letter. (7.31) |
Emma, a well-off young woman, has the ability to refuse offers of marriage. Other women (like Jane and Harriet) are not so lucky.
| Quote #3 Sorrow came—a gentle sorrow—but not at all in the shape of any disagreeable consciousness.—Miss Taylor married. It was Miss Taylor's loss which first brought grief. (1.5) |
Any novel that centers on marriage must have an opponent to union. Mr. Woodhouse describes marriage as a form of separation, not union.