We all know what it's like to give up something – but hopefully none of us really know the kind of pain that Harry goes through in this book when he's got to give up his life to save the world. This is the trade-off that we all knew was coming all along… but now that it's here, it's a real bummer, to say the least! Sacrifice is the ultimate lynch pin here, upon which this whole saga swings: Lily's sacrifice of herself for Harry, followed by Harry's sacrifice for, um, everyone else. It's all tied up in the question of love – which, as we see in this book, really does hurt sometimes.