For Linda, friends aren't just all you need—they're all she has. And that turns out to be enough. Her friendship with Peter, a fellow slave, gets her on the northbound boat to Philadelphia; her friendship with Betty secures her a place to hide out after her escape; and her friendship with the Bruce family finally wins her emancipation. While many early American novels tend to value independence and solitude, Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl highlights the importance of community and friendship, particularly for a female slave seeking freedom.
Whereas male slave narratives tend to highlight individualism and the solitary pursuit of freedom, Incidents stresses the importance of friendship and community in achieving emancipation.
Jacobs suggests that her friendships are unusual in slave communities. Since slaves are rarely permitted to talk to one another when they are not working, it is difficult for strong friendships to form.