No Longer At Ease
In Igbo culture, family has a broad definition. Not only are Obi's parents and siblings his family, but all the men and women who come from his region are also considered his kinsmen. While on the one hand this means that Obi has a strong social network and support system, it also means that his web of obligations is broad. Obi ultimately finds his duties as a member of the Umuofia and as a member of his own family to be burdensome.
Questions About Family
- How does Obi define family? How do his friends and family members define it?
- Why do African societies have a broader definition of family than is found in Western cultures?
- What advantages are there to having a broader definition of family? What disadvantages are there?
- Is the African definition of family similar to the concept of "socialism" or can you find distinguishing characteristics between the two systems?
Chew on This
Because Obi has absorbed the western notion of the nuclear family, and because he feels contempt for much of his indigenous culture, he fails to recognize the Umuofia Progressive Union as an extended support system for him during his time of need.
Although Obi is willing to flout custom when it offends only his friends in Lagos, he is unwilling to choose Clara over his family, especially when he realizes how isolated he will be if he does so.