In the Odyssey, respect and reputation are won in several ways. Key among them is the display of courage in battle. It is also important to honor one’s hosts, guests, and the dead. At times, it is even crucial to indulge the enemy’s requests, especially when it involves royalty or their dead. Because many of the qualities valued in the world of the Odyssey relate to domestic life as well, women could also win glory for excellence in upholding them. Still, questions are raised in the Odyssey as to the value of glory – especially when it comes at the expense of one’s death. The epic’s end, however, does seem to reaffirm the value of honor at all costs.
Odysseus is obligated to avenge himself on the suitors in order to restore honor to his house.