| Quote #1 If I had not met the red-haired boy whose father (1) |
Family matters are already being introduced. We're not to the speaker's family yet, but it's important nonetheless.
| Quote #2 as he was dying had not had an elder brother (6) |
Merwin is weaving all the family ties together, even if it's a family far removed from the speaker's.
| Quote #3 leaving two children one of them with bad health (8) |
Again, Merwin is showing the interconnectedness of families and how they continue on through the generations.