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The Perks of Being a Wallflower

The Perks of Being a Wallflower


by Stephen Chbosky

The Perks of Being a Wallflower Theme of Family

Everybody's family is different, and never is that more apparent than in young-adult fiction. Usually one or both parents are dead, older siblings have run away, or the protagonist has to play parent to a younger brother or sister. Well, not in The Perks of Being a Wallflower.

On the surface, Charlie's family meets the textbook standard criteria for normal: mother, father, three kids. We wouldn't be surprised if they had a white picket fence. But just because they fit a mold set by 50s-era sitcoms, that doesn't mean they are one big happy family. They definitely have their share of problems, some of them dating back a generation or two. And they're certainly not forthcoming with loving comments and physical affection. Still, in the clutch, they all come together to support each other.

Questions About Family

  1. Why does Charlie give Aunt Helen a name when he doesn't name any of his other family members?
  2. Is Charlie's family a loving one? How can you tell? 
  3. What is Charlie's relationship with his sister like? Do they have a normal sibling relationship or is there something unique happening with them?
  4. Sam and Patrick are step-siblings. How do their interactions differ from Charlie's interactions with his sister?

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