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Song of Myself

Song of Myself


by Walt Whitman

Song of Myself Theme of Friendship

Whitman is the poet of democracy, and friendship is the one truly essential ingredient for a democracy. He wasn't the only one to realize this. His contemporary and literary inspiration Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote extensively on the subject of friendship, as did the philosopher of the original democracy in Ancient Greece, Aristotle. In "Song of Myself," Whitman addresses the reader like a close friend, and his tone is reassuring and non-judgmental. He wants to get closer to everyone he meets, to hug them and kiss them and provide them with a shoulder to lean on. He is eager to become fast friends with any kind of stranger.

Questions About Friendship

  1. Do you think it's possible to become friends with people you've never met, as the speaker claims to be?
  2. Are friendships more important in a democracy than in other forms of government? Why or why not?
  3. Would you feel comfortable being as expressive about your affection for other people as Whitman is? Do you think it is more or less difficult to express feelings of friendship nowadays compared with Whitman's time?
  4. The poem tries not to exclude anyone. Is it possible to have true friendship without exclusion?

Chew on This

Try on an opinion or two, start a debate, or play the devil’s advocate.

Whitman's list of friends and companions excludes, or at least subordinates, all those who do not work outdoors or with their hands.

The speaker of "Song of Myself" believes that erotic desire, rather than intellectual or moral compatibility, is the root of all friendship.

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