| Quote #1
Indeed, she had the whole of the other sex under her protection; for reasons she could not explain, for their chivalry and valour, for the fact that they negotiated treaties, ruled India, controlled finance; finally for an attitude towards herself which no woman could fail to feel or to find agreeable, something trustful, childlike, reverential; which an old woman could take from a young man without loss of dignity, and woe betide the girl—pray Heaven it was none of her daughters!—who did not feel the worth of it, and all that it implied, to the marrow of her bones! (1.1.7)
Mrs. Ramsay believes that men deserve her protection – first, because they rule the world, and second, for their attitude towards women (as experienced by herself in particular.)
| Quote #2
She was now formidable to behold, and it was only in silence, looking up from their plates, after she had spoken so severely about Charles Tansley, that her daughters, Prue, Nancy, Rose—could sport with infidel ideas which they had brewed for themselves of a life different from hers; in Paris, perhaps; a wilder life; not always taking care of some man or other; for there was in all their minds a mute questioning of deference and chivalry, of the Bank of England and the Indian Empire, of ringed fingers and lace, though to them all there was something in this of the essence of beauty, which called out the manliness in their girlish hearts, and made them, as they sat at table beneath their mother’s eyes, honour her strange severity, her extreme courtesy, like a queen’s raising from the mud to wash a beggar’s dirty foot, when she admonished them so very severely about that wretched atheist who had chased them—or, speaking accurately, been invited to stay with them—in the Isle of Skye. (1.1.9)
Although they respect and honor their mother’s way of life, Mrs. Ramsay’s daughters imagine different lives for themselves. They don’t tell their mother about their dreams of an alternate lifestyle.
| Quote #3
How did he know? She asked. The wind often changed.
For Mr. Ramsay, his wife’s faith that the weather might still be fine tomorrow reflects the inferiority of the female mind.