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Cyberbullying Course Overview
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In our first video on cyberbullying get a general overlook of what this series of videos will offer.

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Cyberbullying: Evolution
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In this video from our cyberbullying course, learn all about the evolution of cyberbullies from the caveman era to now.

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Cyberbullying: What it is and isn't
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In this video on cyberbullying, learn all about what cyberbullying is and isn't.

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Cyberbullying: How to Deal with it 843 Views


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In this video from our cyberbullying course, learn all about how to deal with cyberbullying when you are the victim.


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Thank you We sneak in cyberbullying Allah shmoop how to

00:06

deal with being cyber bullied let's say you get an

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email from some unknown address telling you to choke on

00:14

the barrel of a handgun Okay pretty sick but you

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figure it's just one of those random spam things like

00:20

from the king of nigeria who really needs your financial

00:23

advice So you ignore it but then you get the

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same thing texted to your cellphone Some twisted individual is

00:30

messing with you You specifically same thing gets posted on

00:34

your facebook wall and you even get a photo of

00:37

yourself photo shop so it looks like you've got a

00:40

gun in your mouth Still you let it go But

00:43

a week later there's some story on the news about

00:45

some kid who is getting threatening messages and he ended

00:49

up killing himself by sticking a gun in his mouth

00:53

It could be a coincidence but deep down you know

00:56

it isn't nice job letting mr nutjob carry on his

00:59

important work How's sleeping at night working out for you

01:03

this week Well here's the good news for anyone who

01:05

reports a cyber bully you're not a snitch in the

01:08

mob if someone is bullying you online and you tell

01:12

someone about it you are not a snitch When you

01:14

were younger you got flagged for tattle in your sister's

01:17

not going extra cookie after dinner and you tattled to

01:19

your parents blah blah when a serious and repeatable crime

01:23

is being committed It isn't tattle ing it's reporting your

01:27

saving someone else Isn't there a social responsibility We have

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to protect each other on this planet Have we grown

01:33

that large as a country that we don't have atleast

01:36

an obligation to be responsible the one another There is

01:39

no tattle ing on ly communication intended to help not

01:44

harm So now take that sense of personal obligation to

01:47

your brothers and sisters on this earth and apply it

01:50

to cyber bullying Little trudy tompkins gets repeatedly harassed by

01:54

the same bully for over a year death threats in

01:58

an inbox Rumors spread online about her having a congenital

02:01

twin removed from her neck at birth Lovely pictures posted

02:05

on her facebook wall Okay true Just got a few

02:07

options Well let's See what's behind door number one Do

02:10

nothing Keep it inside Everything is awesome Sounds like a

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great plan We can already see the therapy bills Door

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number two Tell her best friend Well telling your friend

02:22

might not do much since they're not a responsible adult

02:26

and there might even be a backfire risk here Her

02:28

friend told everyone in the school and well now others

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air harassing her for being a whiny baby and it's

02:35

just tick the bully off So now the bullying escalates

02:38

Great job friend Or alternatively that friend has the key

02:42

to daddy's gun collection and one day decides she needs

02:45

some vigilante target practice now to door number three Tell

02:50

her parents Well this is a good option if trudy's

02:52

parents are the responsible proactive type But in trudy's case

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she tells your mom does your mom even believe her

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That he's also behind door number three But trudy's dad

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drinks and has a nasty temper No telling what he

03:07

might do Oh and a big gun collection don't want

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that How about door number four Tell a teacher boom

03:15

that does the trick Her teacher is likely emotionally disengaged

03:19

and will not go nuts or react irrationally So the

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teacher contacts the law enforcement people they tracked down her

03:25

Bully and he's out of her life or at least

03:27

the consequences get massively severe if he now re enters

03:32

All right what about door number five Five little works

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go directly to the cops They're not going to ignore

03:37

the bowling stuff Not anymore They've seen it go south

03:41

too many times knowing where to go to report Bowling

03:44

is just a cz important is reporting it at all

03:47

Tell someone who has a clue but if trudy goes

03:49

with door number one and doesn't tell anyone on the

03:52

bull you'll simply swooped down on other victims Make dozens

03:55

of other people miserable make it lead to a suicide

03:58

or two house keeping a low profile working out for

04:01

you now trudy Well if you want something like that

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down your head go ahead and keep it a secret

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Stay all safe and protected in your little private cocoon

04:09

but unless you have really crappy parents and teachers they'll

04:12

have your back The bully will be caught and punished

04:15

and if they get punished severely or often enough or

04:17

both well they might just get the hint Start leaving

04:20

people the heck alone and our guess is that society

04:23

Will soon have zero tolerance laws for this stuff you

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get caught bullying in his permanent record Good luck getting

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that job you always wanted All right So when should

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you report a cyber bully Well okay there's A line

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drawn here If you're chatting on a facebook thread and

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you say my dad told me that santa was really

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and then melanie from your brit lit class responds by

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saying your dad is an idiot that is not cyber

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bullying In fact you may want to listen to this

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kid Sounds like she knows what's up But if melanie

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tracked you down to the website you were on followed

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you from one room to another and told you and

04:57

everyone else that your dad was an idiot kind of

04:59

out of the blue Maybe said he was a klansman

05:02

who's looking for crosses to burn and then gives your

05:05

home address Well then yeah she's a cyber bully who

05:09

needs to be stopped And you're the only one who

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can stop her Which sort of makes you a little

05:13

bit of superman You have to ask yourself what's the

05:15

worst That can happen if i report a bully You

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tell your dad hey dad This jerk from school's been

05:21

hounding me on social media sites and keep saying offensive

05:24

things to me and your dad says so What Grow

05:27

a pair Well yeah not the reaction you were open

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for Well you're right back where you started Now what's

05:34

the best that can happen when you report a bully

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You you tell your dad and he takes action alerts

05:38

law enforcement or teachers or somebody important And they tracked

05:42

down the bully bully gets expelled maybe even some time

05:45

in juvie pulling parts on his record And if he's

05:47

caught a second time it's jail hard time to get

05:51

some help Maybe some positive reinforcement Maybe he sees the

05:55

error of his ways Maybe he stopped fooling people Yeah

06:00

well somewhere in southern indiana there's Some poor frail hearted

06:03

girl Who's still alive because of you You may never

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know how you save that life but it could really

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happen Okay have away the upside and downside Enough here

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Easy call right Yeah So now that you've decided not

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to sit on your hands well what steps do you

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take when dealing with a bully Well first thing do

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Not respond Cut off all communication finito Block him If

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you can don't delete what they sent you Keep that

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stuff is evidence Next whatever site you're on when you

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got bullied Well they probably have a place for you

06:35

to click here or here and report him Let him

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know you're being bullied bad for their rep if they

06:41

let it continue so they'll probably boot that player off

06:44

the site Finally tell a trusted adult your parents a

06:48

teacher If you've been getting threatened with physical violence bring

06:51

in the law enforcement Those guys were just busy directing

06:54

traffic and eating doughnuts anyway right guys we're just kidding

06:58

We love you What if you tell someone you've been

07:07

cyber bullied and they do call you a snitch If

07:10

you report a bully what are the chances they'll come

07:13

after you for reporting them How do you know if

07:16

someone is a good person to tell what's an example

07:20

of something that's not quite cyberbullying but is close to

07:24

cyber bullying Is it a good idea to report a

07:27

belief directly to law enforcement even if the bully hasn't

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threatened you physically How's Sleeping at night working out for 00:07:37.133 --> [endTime] you this week

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