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Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?

Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?

by Joyce Carol Oates

Connie's Mother

Character Analysis

Connie and her mother do not get along. In a familiar pattern for many mother-daughter relationships, Connie's mother never seems to speak kindly to or of Connie, and Connie doesn't think too highly of her mother either. Once pretty herself, Connie's mother now "scuffl[es] around the house in bedroom slippers," an image of married life that Connie doesn't want in her own future. There's still affection there, and in a loaded phrase, the story tells us they were "almost friends" (11). Despite their squabbling, Connie poignantly still calls out for her mother in her attempt to escape Arnold Friend, when she tries to call the police (144). Is the story suggesting that somehow the lack of her mother's friendship sends her into a really bad Friend's arms?

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