Cyberbullying

Bullies be gone.

  • Course Length: 1 week
  • Course Type: Short Course
  • Category:
    • Health, Physical Education, and Counseling
    • Middle School
    • High School

Schools and Districts: We offer customized programs that won't break the bank. Get a quote.

Get a Quote

"Yeah, yeah," you're thinking. "I know—don't cyberbully. I get it."

And we'll give you that: hopefully, you do get it. But that doesn't mean everyone else gets it, too. This course will help you navigate the slippery world of online bullying—from both sides.


Unit Breakdown

1 Cyberbullying - Cyberbullying

Four lessons, four topics:

  • Defining Cyberbullying
  • Online Safety and Preventive Measures
  • The Consequences
  • How to Report Cyberbullying


Sample Lesson - Introduction

Lesson 1.01: What is Online Bullying?

The year is…well, any time before computers, really. Let's go with 80,000 BCE.

Artist's rendering of Thungtorg.

(Source)

Grodgak and Thungtorg are having a bit of a disagreement. It's lunch time at Club-Go-Boom High, and Grodgak, a total jock, is tormenting Thungtorg. As usual.

Grodgak: "Give me your lunch money." 
Thungtorg: "And what if I don't?"

[Grodgak and two of his buddies beat the brains out of Thungtorg and take his lunch money by force.]

Okay, so that was the old way of doing things—the pre-Internet way of bullying and making people feel small and powerless. (And believe us, it's tough to make Thungtorg look small and powerless.)

Good news for bullies, though: now you can hide behind a wall of obscurity while reducing strangers to tears!

Here's the new way:

Grodgak Jr.: "Give me your lunch money."
Thungtorg Jr.: "I don't even know you."
Grodgak Jr.: "Send it to me through Paypal you little       ."
Thungtorg Jr.: " "Why would I do that?"
Grodgak Jr.: "Because I know all about you, Thungtorg Jefferson."

[Pause.]

Thungtorg Jr.: "How do you know my name?"
Grodgak Jr.: "Because I hacked your computer. And I've already bought the URL www.thungtorgjeffersonisgay.com. And I'm going to start a blog there telling everyone about how much you love       …unless I get $50 in my Paypal account tonight."

First, we doubt Grodgak Jr.'s lunch costs $50. Second, as gross as this interaction is, it's not that unusual. This sort of harassment takes place all the time—just about anywhere that users can interact with each other online.

Sometimes bullying is pretty easy to spot.

(Source)

Here's the thing, though. Online bullying may be defined as bullying that takes place online, but the distinction isn't just about where it happens. In fact, a whole lot changes when you go from in-person to online bullying. Neither is better or worse than the other, but there are tons of distinctions:

  • Online bullying is a lot easier for the perpetrator to commit because they don't have to do it face-to-face. It takes the whole confrontation thing out of the mix and also gives the possibility of it being anonymous. 
  • The Internet works at all hours of the day, every day of the year. That means bullying can happen all the time online. It's not over when the school bell rings.
  • You can't get physical online, but you can do pretty much everything else. Because the Internet is a place of endless bounty, that means bullying can come in the form of words, images, sounds, videos, and everything in between.

In this lesson, we're going to familiarize ourselves more with online bullying. We know it's bad, but we want to be sure we know what it is.


Sample Lesson - Reading

Reading 1.1.01: Tread Lightly

There are about a zillion things that qualify as online bullying, and we definitely don't want to give the illusion that you can just make a list and everything that's not on that list isn't cyberbullying. Having said that, it can be helpful to familiarize ourselves with a few examples of online bullying so we can know it when we see it:

  • Saying nasty things to or about someone over text message, instant message, email, Facebook, or any other online medium. This is the most obvious form of bullying: being mean. (e.g., "Hey, loser, your new haircut looks stupid. You should probably just shave your whole head now.")
  • Spreading rumors about someone online. In fact, spreading anything about someone online. Even if you know something is true, that doesn't mean you can spread that information. (e.g., "Did you hear Misty abducted an alien? Spread the word.") 
  • Ganging up on someone online. That might mean that you're having a discussion with a group of people online and everyone decides to gang up on one of the participants; or it might mean you're playing a game online and everyone decides it would be funny to be sure someone specific loses. (e.g., Jerk #1: "Get out of this chat room,           ." Jerk #2: "Yeah, get out of here." Jerk #3 "You heard what Jerk #1 and Jerk #2 said—LEAVE.")
  • Threatening someone online. Even if you have no intention of following through on the threat, and even if it's just a joke, it might not always come off that way. (e.g.,. "You can't even imagine how huge a wedgie I'm going to give you after gym tomorrow.") 
  • Creating a blog post, website, or other forum that's devoted to general nastiness toward a specific person. (e.g., http://www.dailyobservationsofhowdumbpeterkempis.blogspot.com)
  • Hacking into someone's account (whether it's email, Facebook, Twitter, or anything else), and doing anything that might be harmful to that person. (Never mind the fact that the first part is illegal on its own.) (e.g., "Um, who changed my Facebook profile pic to me making out with a polar bear?") 
  • Pretty much anything sexy. Sexting and the sort isn't good practice generally, but it crosses into online bullying territory when it's not consensual. (e.g., "You know you want it.")
  • Being exclusive in terms of who you let into an online group. (e.g., "Get out of here, chump. Jocks only.")

If you have any questions about what constitutes online bullying, head on over to cyberbullying.us. But here's our general rule of thumb:

If you're not sure if something is online bullying, it probably is.


Sample Lesson - Activity

Activity 1.01a: The Real Thing

Enough hypotheticals. Lets find out what online bullying actually looks like.

  1. Step 1: Head on over to our friend Google and look up some of the following terms:

    • Cyberbullying 
    • Online bullying
    • E-bullying

    Step 2: Click on that "News" tab to narrow things down to online bullying in the news—that way, you'll be sure to get tons of examples.

    Step 3: Find ten different instances of cyberbullying that actually happened. We're not looking for the general, vague-ish description like we gave in the Reading. We want you to tell us exactly what happened, when it happened, who was involved, and how it all ended (if it did). Your descriptions only need to be about 25-50 words long, but they should be specific.

    The only rule: each of your examples has to describe a different type of cyberbullying. So you can't just list 10 instances of someone calling someone else ugly on Twitter.

    Go for it.

  2. Now that you're done, it's time to reflect. Write a paragraph describing your gut reactions to these stories. We want you get personal, but here are some guiding questions to get you started:

    • Did any of the examples you read strike you as particularly harsh or frightening? What was it about those examples that affected you?
    • On the other hand, was there anything that, before reading the article, you wouldn't have counted as cyberbullying? Has your opinion changed?
    • Have you witnessed anything like the examples you just read about?


    150 words, please.


Sample Lesson - Activity

Activity 1.01b: Defining the Bully

You've done plenty of legwork, so now we want you to prove your expertise.

Your task: define cyberbullying.

Be as concise as possible (no more than 100 words), and post your definition to the discussion board. Once everyone has posted, take a long, hard look at everyone's definitions.

Notice something? They're all pretty different, right? Our point: online bulling means different things to different people, so tread lightly. Just because you don't feel like you're bullying someone, it doesn't mean that they don't feel like you're bullying them.


Sample Lesson - Activity

Activity 1.01c: The Upside of It All

Newsflash: the Internet is not all evil. Before we keep talking about cyberbullying and convince ourselves that online interaction is for suckers, we want to reflect on some of the more positive things online communities have to offer.

All you need to do for this activity is recount a story of something that happened to you in an online community that had a positive impact on you. Here are some ideas, but you can really choose whatever you want:

  • A kind word that someone said to you in an email, text message, Gchat, or anywhere else online—something they may have not had the courage to say in person.
  • A photo that someone shared online that made you feel good about the world and your place in it.
  • A joke someone told you that made you crack up—one that only works in writing.
  • A community of people coming together for support or connection.