Tuesdays With Morrie Chapter 15 Quotes
How we cite the quotes:
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Quote 1
"[But by throwing yourself into these emotions,] you experience them fully and completely. You know what pain is. You know what love is. You know what grief is. And only then can you say, 'All right. I have experienced that emotion. I recognize that emotion. Now I need to detach from that emotion for a moment.'" (15.35)
Being self-aware is key to making choices. Morrie says that he's able to make choices about the way that he's going to feel, and that once he looks honestly at himself and accepts what he's going through, he's able to judge which decision will be the best for him.
Quote 2
Do you believe in reincarnation? I ask.
"Perhaps"
What would you come back as?
"If I had my choice, a gazelle." (15.59-62)
Morrie and Mitch are willing to entertain the idea of reincarnation. The idea of being born again as a different creature comes from the Hindu faith. This idea doesn't come up a lot and they aren't even saying that they definitely think it's a true idea, but Morrie is willing to think of it as an option.
Quote 3
"Ah. You're thinking, Mitch. But detachment doesn't mean you don't let the experience penetrate you. On the contrary, you let it penetrate you fully. That's how you are able to leave it." (15.32)
Morrie isn't suggesting that we detach ourselves from everything, including who we are. Instead, he's saying that in order to have the most amount of consciousness—to be aware of how it feels to exist one hundred percent—we should remove all the unnecessary cares and attachments from our lives so we can kind of throw ourselves into existing.
Quote 4
"I know you think this is just about dying," he said, but it's like I keep telling you. When you learn how to die, you learn how to live." (15.37)
Here are some of Morrie's most famous words. He's been able to live a meaningful life with his illness, precisely because he knows that his days are numbered. It's like we said: The theme of living and existing is completely tied up with the theme of dying.
Quote 5
"Yes. Detaching myself. And this is important—not just for someone like me, who is dying, but for someone like you, who is perfectly healthy. Learn to detach." (15.27)
Here, Morrie is teaching by example again, being that human textbook. The lesson of detachment, he says, is as important to him as it is to Mitch. He's asking Mitch to look at him, use him as a learning tool to understand the importance of what he's teaching.