Wonder Friendship Quotes

How we cite our quotes: (Part.Chapter.Paragraph)

Quote #1

"That guy made the funniest face!" said Jack as we sat down at our desks.

"I know, right?" I said. "He was like, whoa!"

"I swear, I think he wet his pants!"

We were laughing so hard that the teacher, Mr. Roche, had to ask us to settle down.

Later, after we finished reading about how ancient Sumerians built sundials, Jack whispered: "Do you ever want to beat those kids up?" (1.Jack Will.3-7)

As their friendship develops and Jack sees all the weird reactions Auggie constantly deals with, Jack feels outrage on his friend's behalf. He's beginning to imagine how he would feel if those things were happening to him. Diagnosis: early-stage empathy.

Quote #2

"Sounds like a plan." I nodded.

"Thanks, Auggie," she giggled. "You know, that's what I like best about you. I feel like I can tell
you anything."

"Yeah?" I answered, nodding. I gave her a thumbs-up sign. "Cool beans." (1.Halloween.30-32)

Self-disclosure + acceptance = key ingredients of friendship.

Quote #3

But it wasn't just the way she looked that was different: she was acting differently, too. I can't say she wasn't nice, because she was, but she seemed kind of distant, like I was a casual friend. It was the weirdest thing in the world. (2.Major Tom.4)

Miranda is suddenly exploring her identity, changing her appearance and redefining her social circle. Via, on the other hand, is a very steady kid—she knows who she is. So she's pretty weirded out by Miranda's departure from her former self.

Quote #4

"Did Mr. Tushman ask you to be friends with him?" Charlotte Cody asked.

"No. I'm friends with him because I want to be friends with him," I answered. (3.Weird Kids.5-6)

The simplicity of Summer's response both affirms her friendship with Auggie and leaves no opening for "weird kids" to doubt her. Summer has perfect clarity, solid convictions, and great self-confidence.

Quote #5

I do admit August's face takes some getting used to. I've been sitting with him for two weeks now, and let's just say he's not the neatest eater in the world. But other than that, he's pretty nice. I should also say that I don't really feel sorry for him anymore. That might have been what made me sit down with him the first time, but it's not why I keep sitting down with him. I keep sitting down with him because he's fun. (3.The Plague.1)

Summer knows herself well, which helps her to accurately assess the good, the bad, and the ugly of a situation. More importantly, her self-awareness enables her to stay true to herself.

Quote #6

One of the things I'm not loving about this year is how a lot of the kids are acting like they're too grown-up to play things anymore. All they want to do is "hang out" and "talk" at recess. And all they talk about now is who likes who and who is cute and isn't cute. August doesn't bother about that stuff. He likes to play Four Square at recess, which I love to play, too. (3.The Plague.2)

Adolescence hits kids at different times and at different rates, and as this happens, priorities and interests change. The similarity of Auggie's and Summer's wavelengths helps to cement their friendship.

Quote #7

Second of all, he's actually a really cool dude. I mean, he's pretty funny. Like, the teacher will say something and August will whisper something funny to me that no one else hears and totally make me crack up. He's also just, overall, a nice kid. Like, he's easy to hang out with and talk to and stuff. (4.Four Things.2)

This is Jack telling us about Auggie. Cool? Check. Funny? Check. Nice? Check. Easy to talk to? Check. Sounds like solid friend criteria. But can Jack handle being friends with someone so unpopular?

Quote #8

Fourthly, now that I know him, I would say I actually do want to be friends with August. At first, I admit it, I was only friendly to him because Mr. Tushman asked me to be especially nice and all that. But now I would choose to hang out with him. He laughs at all my jokes. And I kind of feel like I can tell August anything. Like he's a good friend. Like, if all the guys in the fifth grade were lined up against a wall and I got to choose anyone I wanted to hang out with, I would choose August. (4.Four Things.9)

Is it just us, or is there an undercurrent of surprise throughout the chapter "Four Things" as Jack tries to get his head around the fact that he really likes Auggie?

Quote #9

One of the things I miss the most about Via's friendship is her family. I loved her mom and dad. They were always so welcoming and nice to me. I knew they loved their kids more than anything. I always felt safe around them: safer than anywhere else in the world. How pathetic that I felt safer in someone else's house than in my own, right? (7.What I Miss Most.1)

Miranda and Via go back so far they're practically family—we'd even venture that Via's family is more of a family to Miranda than her own. Over the school year, Miranda has been seeking acceptance, love, and validation through popularity. She comes up kind of empty-handed though, which helps her realize how important her old friendship with Via is.

Quote #10

Yeah, dudes, thanks," I said, holding my palm up like Jack just had, though I wasn't sure if they'd high-five me, too.

Amos looked at me and nodded. "It was cool how you stood your ground, little dude," he said, high-fiving me.

"Yeah, Auggie," said Miles, high-fiving me, too. "You were like, 'We're littler than you guys'…."

"I didn't know what else to say!" I laughed.

"Very cool, said Henry, and he high-fived me too. (8.Voices in the Dark.41-45)

The popular guys finally see Auggie for who he is, and they admire that he bravely stood up to the cruelty and abuse the other kids hurled at him. Choosing to defend Auggie finally makes him one of them. They've gone into battle together—and survived—so now they're bonded.

But the bravest moment of all is, quite possibly, when Auggie holds up his hand for that high-five he doesn't even know if he will get. When he does get that unhesitating high-five, we know everything has changed.

Quote #11

I heard Maya, who was next to me, give a little happy scream when she heard my name, and Miles, who was on the other side of me, patted my back. "Stand up, get up!" said kids all around me, and I felt lots of hands pushing me upward out of my seat, guiding me to the edge of the row, patting my back, high-fiving me. "Way to go, Auggie!" "Nice going, Auggie!" I even started hearing my name being chanted: "Aug-gie! Aug-gie! Aug-gie!" I looked back and saw jack leading the chant, fist in the air, smiling and signaling for me to keep going, and Amos shouting through his hands: "Woo-hoo, little dude!" (8.Floating.1)

By the end of the year, all the kids in Auggie's class have come to accept him. And more than that, they really like him. (Well except for Julian, but he's switching schools anyway.) Looks like Auggie will be having a completely different experience in the sixth grade.