The Curious Case of Benjamin Button Identity Quotes

How we cite our quotes: Citations follow this format: (Part.Section.Paragraph)

Quote #1

"I can't tell you exactly who I am," replied the querulous whine, "because I've only been born a few hours – but my last name is certainly Button." (1.1.44)

Indeed, Benjamin’s effort to define who he is, is central to "Benjamin Button."

Quote #2

"I'm right glad of it," whined the old man. "This is a fine place to keep a youngster of quiet tastes. With all this yelling and howling, I haven't been able to get a wink of sleep. I asked for something to eat" – here his voice rose to a shrill note of protest – "and they brought me a bottle of milk!" (1.1.50)

Benjamin seems rather matter-of-fact about this whole thing, possibly because he doesn’t realize how odd it is to be born as he was born. For him, the abnormal is normal.

Quote #3

People would stop to speak to him, and what was he going to say? He would have to introduce this – this septuagenarian: "This is my son, born early this morning." And then the old man would gather his blanket around him and they would plod on, past the bustling stores, the slave market – for a dark instant Mr. Button wished passionately that his son was black – past the luxurious houses of the residential district, past the home for the aged.... (1.1.56)

Mr. Button is most concerned for his own image and sense of self; having a son like Benjamin, in his mind, changes who he is.

Quote #4

Mr. Button grunted. "I don't know," he answered harshly. "I think we'll call you Methuselah." (1.2.31)

By using this name, Mr. Button makes it clear that Benjamin will always be defined by his age.

Quote #5

When his grandfather's initial antagonism wore off, Benjamin and that gentleman took enormous pleasure in one another's company. They would sit for hours, these two, so far apart in age and experience, and, like old cronies, discuss with tireless monotony the slow events of the day. Benjamin felt more at ease in his grandfather's presence than in his parents' – they seemed always somewhat in awe of him and, despite the dictatorial authority they exercised over him, frequently addressed him as "Mr." (1.3.8)

"Benjamin Button" teaches us that age has a lot more to do with identity than simply physical appearances. Benjamin isn’t just born physically old; he’s born with the affinities, tastes, and mentalities of an older man. That’s why he gets along with those who are of his apparent age, not his real age.

Quote #6

"I like men of your age," Hildegarde told him. "Young boys are so idiotic. They tell me how much champagne they drink at college, and how much money they lose playing cards. Men of your age know how to appreciate women." (1.5.15)

It is ironic that Hildegarde marries Benjamin for being older than she, when he is the same age as she at this point.

Quote #7

And here we come to an unpleasant subject which it will be well to pass over as quickly as possible. There was only one thing that worried Benjamin Button; his wife had ceased to attract him.

At that time Hildegarde was a woman of thirty-five, with a son, Roscoe, fourteen years old. In the early days of their marriage Benjamin had worshipped her. But, as the years passed, her honey-coloured hair became an unexciting brown, the blue enamel of her eyes assumed the aspect of cheap crockery – moreover, and, most of all, she had become too settled in her ways, too placid, too content, too anemic in her excitements, and too sober in her taste. As a bride it been she who had "dragged" Benjamin to dances and dinners – now conditions were reversed. She went out socially with him, but without enthusiasm, devoured already by that eternal inertia which comes to live with each of us one day and stays with us to the end. (1.7.7)

Just as Benjamin’s age reflects not only his body but also his personality, so we see the same thing with Hildegarde. The reasons for Benjamin’s fading love have as much to do with her shifting disposition as with her aging body.

Quote #8

There were no troublesome memories in his childish sleep; no token came to him of his brave days at college, of the glittering years when he flustered the hearts of many girls. There were only the white, safe walls of his crib and Nana and a man who came to see him sometimes, and a great big orange ball that Nana pointed at just before his twilight bed hour and called "sun." When the sun went his eyes were sleepy – there were no dreams, no dreams to haunt him. (2.1.8)

How can we define Benjamin at the end of this story? Who is he, if he doesn’t even remember who he’s been his whole life?