When You Reach Me Identity Quotes

How we cite our quotes: (Chapter.Paragraph)

Quote #4

There are differences. Their kitchen floor is yellow and orange linoleum squares instead of the white with gold flakes that we have, and Sal's bed is up against a different wall in the bedroom. But we have the same bathroom floor – these white hexagonal tiles. If I look at them long enough, I can see all kinds of patterns in those hexagons: lines, arrows, even flowers. They kind of shift into these different pictures. It's the sort of thing a person would never try to explain to anyone else, but once, when we were little, I told Sal about it, and then we went into his bathroom to stare at the floor together. Sal and Miranda, Miranda and Sal. (11.3)

Miranda shares her most intimate thoughts with Sal. Or used to. How does her the breakup of her friendship with Sal change how she sees herself?

Quote #5

The first time I brought Annemarie home to our apartment after school, I wished for two things. First, I wished that the boys wouldn't be in front of the garage. They'd just recently started saying things to me, different things, some of which included the words "sweet" and "baby." Mom said this happened to girls after a certain age, and that what the boys wanted was a reaction, any kind of reaction. (19.1)

Miranda is growing older. Though she may not see herself as someone who should be called "sweet" or "baby," it's clear that other people do.

Quote #6

Upstairs, a weird thing happened. After living there almost every day of my life, I saw our apartment as if it were the first time. I noticed all sorts of things that were usually invisible to me: the stuffing coming out of the sofa in two places, the burns from Mr. Nunzi's cigarettes, the big flakes of paint hanging off the ceiling, and the black spot next to the radiator where dripping water had stained the wood floor. (19.24)

When Miranda brings Annemarie over to her apartment she is forced to see herself and her apartment in a different – and more critical – light. How does looking at her apartment with fresh eyes change the way Miranda thinks about herself and her family?