Freedom and Confinement Quotes in The Selection

How we cite our quotes: (Chapter.Paragraph)

Quote #1

The whole thing made me feel like my family didn't think I had any right to want something of my own. It bothered me. (3.49)

America often feels hemmed in by her family, and this only gets worse once the Selection rolls around. Rightly or wrongly, her mother sees the Selection as a way for the family to escape poverty, and she's not giving America any choice in the matter.

Quote #2

"You cannot leave the palace of your own accord. You have to be dismissed by the prince himself." (6.39)

While America is taking part in the Selection, she's completely under Prince Maxon's control. She can't even sneeze without him signing a permission slip. No matter the payoff, it's never fun to have your personal freedom so constrained.

Quote #3

"You are not to go outside under any circumstances," Silvia continued, "During the day, there will be times when you can go into the garden, but not without permission." (9.86)

Although Silvia tries to frame this as a safety precaution, it's hard to believe that there's not something deeper going on here. The entire Selection is built around these thirty-five women being under the thumb of the prince, after all, so it's counter-intuitive that they'd be allowed any degree of freedom.

Quote #4

There was no freedom in this. The bars of my balcony caged me in. And I could still see the walls around the palace, high with guards atop the points. (10.67)

America doesn't take very well to palace life. In part, this is due to the vast class differences between America and the royal family: she's so out of her comfort zone in the palace it's not even funny. Regardless of the reason, however, America quickly feels stifled by the constraining nature of the Selection as a whole.

Quote #5

"Open the doors."

"But—Your Majesty–"

"Open the doors and let her go. Now!" (10.79-81)

In a surprising twist, Prince Maxon comes to America's rescue and allows her to get some air in the garden, despite it being against the rules. We did not see that coming.

Quote #6

Would I ever get back any piece of the life I'd had before this? I just didn't know. And there wasn't a damn thing I could do about any of it. (10.89)

It's bad enough that the minute-to-minute experience of being a part of the Selection is a bummer, but America must also reckon with the fact that her life will be forever changed after the competition concludes. No matter the outcome, America will lose some of her precious freedom.

Quote #7

I looked over at Lucy. At least in my case, one of us got to make the decision. She had no choice when it came to losing the man she loved. (13.163)

America thinks that she has it rough, but being Selected is a dream compared to being an indentured servant at the palace. Anne, Mary, and Lucy have zero freedom, but, unlike America, they have no hope of ever gaining it. That must feel really constraining.

Quote #8

"America, I might have my family, but imagine how embarrassing it is to have your parents watch as you attempt to date for the first time." (15.40)

Maxon feels confined by the Selection, too, but in a much different way from the America feels. America feels constrained because she's out of her comfort zone and forced under the thumb of some princely nerd (or is it a nerdy prince?). For Maxon, however, the situation is emotionally constraining because an entire country is watching him date for the first time. We don't envy that.

Quote #9

It seemed so funny that the palace—the beautiful cage—was the one place I could actually let myself be open about everything I'd been feeling. (16.1)

As America grows closer to Maxon, the palace starts feeling less like a prison and more like a sanctuary. What a completely and utterly unrelated coincidence. Now, America still doesn't feel entirely comfortable in this bizarro place where crowns are considered casual wear, but it's a good start.

Quote #10

Yes, I still had feelings for Aspen. I couldn't undo that. But if I couldn't be with him, then what was holding me back from being with Maxon? (18.196)

It's not until the back half of the novel that America fully understands how her feelings towards Aspen have been holding her back, preventing her from making herself vulnerable and taking a chance with Maxon. In other words, her feelings towards Aspen have, in her mind, kept her from being free.