All the Bright Places Family Quotes

How we cite our quotes: (Chapter.Paragraph)

Quote #1

The nightmares started after the accident. She asks about them every time I see her, because I made the mistake of mentioning them to my mom, who mentioned them to her. This is one of the main reasons why I'm here and why I've stopped telling my mom anything. (2.9)

Violet doesn't feel like she can talk to her parents, especially after her mom rats her out to the school counselor.

Quote #2

Mom is suddenly listening. "Decca." She shakes her head. This is the extent of her parenting. Ever since my dad left, she's tried really hard to be the cool parent. (3.65)

Finch's mom has had a hard time since his dad left the family. As a result, she hasn't been very present as a parent.

Quote #3

Like Ryan, my parents are perfect. They are strong and brave and caring, and even though I know they must cry and get angry and maybe even throw things when they're alone, they rarely show it to me. (5.57)

Violet's parents are perfect…maybe a little too perfect. Sometimes she longs for them to show some real emotion about Eleanor's death.