Crazy Rich Asians Theme of Family

The notion of family is central to this novel: what should a family look like? How should a family interact? What are the responsibilities of a family?

The characters wrestle with what it means to be a family and in what ways people are beholden to the family. In a world where money and lineage dictate much about a life, family takes on a heightened relevance. But different characters value family differently: Philip Young literally lives on a different continent to get away from his family; an entire branch of the family tree (those imperious Shangs) lives on the other side of the world; and Rachel rejects Nick because of his family.

Questions About Family

  1. How and why does the role of family differ between the main characters?
  2. In what ways has family shaped who Rachel, Nick, Astrid, and Eddie are?
  3. How does family positively and negatively affect the characters?
  4. Is family or money more important to members of Nick's family? Which family members value one over the other? Why?