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PBIS: Attitude/Positivity: Constructive Criticism 790 Views
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Thank you Constructive criticism Allah shmoop being criticized is amazing
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Oh yeah being told you did something wrong and need
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fix it is almost as much fun as ultimate frisbee
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or flag football or a root canal Yeah you spend
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all day listening to people tell you how to do
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things your parents your teachers your boss everybody's a critic
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even your dogs Where does he get the gulf Okay
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so it's not fun to be told you're wrong or
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that something you've done and so great But most the
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time people aren't criticizing you just hurt your feelings unless
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they're in a seriously bad mood Well sometimes your friends
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your family members teacher boss they're trying to help you
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by saying something isn't the very best it could be
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even if what they're saying makes your ears one toe
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you know close up shop in college today but often
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people are just trying to provide solutions the problems commonly
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referred to as constructive criticism catchy title there constructive criticism
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is way different and just ragged on someone or complaining
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about them which can be fun too but not nearly
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as productive Just go watch reality tv for details there
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Are a few things you can do when someone offers
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you constructive criticism Well for one you can take the
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advice and make the change maybe not a bad idea
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or you can simply say thank you You don't actually
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have to make the change if you don't think it'll
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help others khun suggest you cut a paragraph from an
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essay but only you get to the lord high executioner
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and actually swing the ax If you so choose How
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about a thank you would be at least nice and
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nobody likes it when they're well meaning advice has taken
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the wrong way and twisted into something hurtful You don't
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want to be sarcastic or mean or nasty to someone
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who's just trying to help you idea Well may we
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suggest you invest in a punching bag Sounds like you
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have some psychological stuff to work out but yeah arguing
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with people who you're tryingto help is not gonna win
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many friends for you or make you very popular If
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you're into that sort of thing it only makes you
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look small and insecure like you fight back and nobody
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wants to hang out with a know it all who
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Can't handle making a mistake and we're looking at you
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her miami everyone makes mistakes Yeah even us even shmoop
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er's and do that make tons of mistakes and no
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one can know everything back Even einstein needed an editor
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for his books He probably stunk it doing his own
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taxes So just remember it's not the mistakes you make
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along the way It's your ability to learn from them
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improve and move on And if somebody offers you something
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well intentioned advice that maybe isn't so hot Yeah mom
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don't don't don't do that be gracious about it and
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thank the person for karin about yet maybe even give
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them a hug if they're a touchy feely kind Yeah 00:02:38.87 --> [endTime] okay well maybe just a thank you
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