Family Quotes in The Host

How we cite our quotes: (Chapter.Paragraph)

Quote #1

"I saw in your file that you have the potential for Motherhood. If you gave yourself to be a Mother, at least all that would not be entirely wasted." (7.88)

Here we see that alien ideals of motherhood line up pretty well with human ideals of motherhood. A creature of Wanda's species must literally give her life to be a mother. Melanie, who sees Jamie as a son just as much as a brother, would give her life to save him. Good thing she was implanted with Wanda (well, as good as alien implantations go), since Wanda would do the same thing.

Quote #2

It seems like Jamie and I have been with Jared every bit as long as we were alone. (8.130)

Even though they've only been together a few weeks at this point, Melanie and Jamie see Jared as family, just like that moment when you meet someone and feel like you've known them forever. Priceless.

Quote #3

Jamie. Our brother! (13.3)

This is one of the few instances where Wanda speaks in first-person plural voice. She considers Jamie her brother just as much as Melanie does, even though Wanda and Jamie aren't related at all by blood. They're not even the same species!

Quote #4

Did [Jamie] have someone to sing to him at night? To tell him stories? (15.63)

Wanda develops a motherly instinct about Jamie, even though he's a little too old for lullabies and bedtime stories. As though he's her child, he'll always be a little boy in her eyes. (Are we allowed to roll our eyes a little?)

Quote #5

My reaction was instantaneous and unthinking. I skittered to one side of the tunnel, sweeping Jamie along with one arm so that I was between him and whatever was coming for me. (20.125)

When Jamie is in danger, Wanda's maternal instinct kicks in automatically. This instance is kind of like when your mom stops the car suddenly and puts her arm in front of you even though you're wearing a seat belt. Whether you need protection or not (in this case, Jamie doesn't) your mom (or the alien who thinks she's your mother) is there to provide it, unconditionally.

Quote #6

The mysterious bond of mother and child [...] was not a mystery to me any longer. There was no bond greater than one that required your life for another's. (21.115)

Hm, this sounds a lot like the bond between alien and host, to us. And it makes us think about the way Renesmee is, like, literally killing Bella in Breaking Dawn. Think Stephenie has some issues around motherhood?

Quote #7

[Motherhood is] a choice. A voluntary choice. [...] It's the only way we ever willingly choose to die. A trade, for a new generation. (34.46)

Later, Wanda willingly chooses to die to bring Melanie back. In that way, she's like a mother to Melanie, sacrificing herself so that Melanie can be reborn.

Quote #8

I would have gone into that room again for Jamie, even it was still reeking of blood. (41.124)

Wanda is so attached to Jamie that he's more family to her than her own species is. She's willing to go in to Doc's room and comfort Jamie, even though some of her own kind were just slaughtered in there.

Quote #9

We were a family in that one instant. All of us. (45.68)

Until this point, Wanda hasn't felt part of Melanie and Jared's family. Now that Jared finally trusts her, she feels accepted.

Quote #10

"She has not given [the baby] up for a host." (47.81)

In a park, Ian, Wanda, and Jared see an unexpected development in the human/soul relationship: a soul-possessed mother caring for a human baby. This blended inter-species family shows that there is hope for co-existence between species on Earth. We can only imagine the therapy bills when the child grows older.