How we cite our quotes: (Chapter.Paragraph)
Quote #1
Because he was a soul, by nature he was all things good: compassionate, patient, honest, virtuous, and full of love. (Prologue.1)
The souls like to think they're all compassionate and benevolent, but how compassionate can they be when they stop around the galaxy, killing indiscriminately, and taking over body after body?
Quote #2
No one could compare what had been and what was now and not admit that Earth was better thanks to us. (5.96)
This is interesting logic on Wanderer's part. Is the planet better off? It's not as though the aliens are going on doing all sorts of deeds for the benefit of the planet. They're acting exactly like the humans do, except without the murder and violence.
Quote #3
Can you see how we thought we might be able to do better, though? (11.98)
Wanda might be compassionate, but she's hardly empathetic. As evidenced by this question early in the novel, she's trying to get Melanie to realize that it was a good idea for her entire race to be wiped out. Um, we think that's going to be a pretty hard sell.
Quote #4
"That's twice," [Ian] growled, and I understood that the punch meant for me had been diverted by Ian's interference. (19.7)
Ian doesn't yet realize why he's defending Wanderer at this point. We're not sure either. Does he feel guilty that someone's trying to hit a girl, or is he starting to care for what's on the inside?
Quote #5
"Her name is Wanda, not it." (29.24)
Now we know exactly why he's defending Wanda. Ian develops compassion for her, for who she really is, and stands up for her to his own friends.
Quote #6
To be filled with so much hate that you could not even rejoice in the healing of a child... How did anyone ever come to that point? (46.37)
Sharon illustrates the exact opposite of compassion and forgiveness. She can't put aside her issues with Wanda even when Wanda saves the life of her nephew. In fact, she hasn't apologized to Wanda by the time the book ends. (Maybe in part two.)
Quote #7
What an extraordinarily stupid way to waste time. (50.91)
Wanda is talking about being consumed by hatred and never forgiving someone who's done you wrong. And, well, she has a point.
Quote #8
The souls were wrong to be here. My humans deserved their world. I could not give it back to them, but I could give them this. (51.46)
You might say that Wanda is compassionate to a fault. She feels for the humans so much, that she's willing to kill herself to bring Melanie back. She also tells them the secret that could turn the tables back in the human's favor, betraying her own race.
Quote #9
"I'm sorry. [...] For trying to kill you," [Kyle] said casually. "Guess I was wrong." (57.134-57.136)
This is something we never thought we'd see: Kyle apologizing. Well, it's not like it seems particularly heartfelt, or anything.
Quote #10
"I held you in my hand, Wanderer. And you were so beautiful." (59.98)
Here we see the pinnacle of Ian's compassion. He holds Wanda's true form and still finds her beautiful. No offense to Wanda, but this is like if you became really good friends with a cockroach (and not the cute one from Wall-e) and found it beautiful.