Quote 61
[Mary Elizabeth] says that my sister is a tease and a snob. I told her not to say anything like that about my sister again. (2.2.6)
The most recent thing Charlie's sister said to him was "You've always been a freak" (1.8.58), but Charlie still defends her. Is that family? Or is that just Charlie?
Quote 62
I am very interested and fascinated by how everyone loves each other, but no one really likes each other. (2.6.3)
Charlie just wrote Webster's next definition of "family."
Quote 63
I don't know if it's better to be close with your daughter or make sure that she has a better life than you. (2.6.17)
Charlie feels like his grandfather had to make this choice, but do the two have to be mutually exclusive?
Quote 64
"I'm thankful that my brother played football on television so nobody fought." (2.6.19)
Charlie has the uncanny ability to be brutally honest when necessary, pretty much shutting up his entire family. Is he only able to be this upfront when dealing with his family?
Quote 65
I walked up to my grandfather and gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek. He wiped my lip print off with his palm and gave me a look. He doesn't like the boys in the family to touch him. (2.6.23)
Maybe this is why Charlie's father doesn't show affection: his dad isn't the most affectionate guy on the planet either. What will Charlie be like as an adult?
Quote 66
Before she left, she hugged me again. Two in one day! I really do love my sister. Especially when she's nice. (4.9.7)
Charlie's family shows physical affection so rarely that two hugs in one day ends up getting an exclamation point. And exclamation points from Charlie are a big stinkin' deal.
Quote 67
My mom made my favorite [lunch] because I think she knew how sad I would be with everyone gone. (4.10.3)
Charlie's mom also has her own way of showing affection. There's a lot of non-verbal, non-physical communication going on in this family. And if it works, it works.
Quote 68
Everyone said how much they loved my sister's speech even if they didn't. (4.13.60)
Charlie's family may not be affectionate, but at least they're supportive.
Quote 69
I think it's sad because Susan doesn't look as happy. (1.2.2)
Charlie barely knows Susan, but her happiness, or lack of, affects Charlie emotionally. If Charlie is so empathic, why doesn't he ever do anything about it?
Quote 70
I guess I'm pretty emotional. (1.2.10)
Early on, Charlie's writing comes across as pretty sterile, so we're surprised to hear this. The only emotion we've seen from him so far is lots and lots of crying, but that's more of a reaction than an emotion.
Quote 71
I'm really glad that Christmas and my birthday are soon because that means they will be over soon because I can already feel myself going to a bad place I used to go. (2.11.4)
Birthdays and Christmas are usually associated with happy memories and excited anticipation, but Charlie has some pretty deep-seated anxieties about these special days. We don't really find out why until the end of the novel. (And you know we're not going to spoil it for you.)
Quote 72
I don't know if you've ever felt like that. That you wanted to sleep for a thousand years. Or just not exist. Or just not be aware that you do exist. (2.14.9)
These feelings are beyond sadness—they're approaching serious depression.
Quote 73
I can hear Sam and Craig having sex, and for the first time in my life, I understand the end of that poem. And I never wanted to. You have to believe me. (2.15.12)
Charlie's talking about the poem he read to Patrick: "A Person, a Paper, a Promise." Even when he's fatalistically depressed, this kid never ceases to defend his emotions. Does he really believe what he's saying, or is he trying to convince himself?
Quote 74
I don't know if this is right or not, but it made me sad regardless. Not for Mary Elizabeth. Or for me. Just in general. (3.10.16)
Charlie spends a lot of time worrying about other people's low self-esteem. But what about his own?
Quote 75
And then I felt really sad because I thought maybe I was different from how Mary Elizabeth saw me, too. (3.10.17)
Instead of trying to clarify to Mary Elizabeth who he really is—whoever that may be—Charlie just mopes about it. Passivity just seeps into every pore of his being.
Quote 76
The nights he would pick up someone always made him sad. (4.5.24)
Charlie's not the only sad one, of course. Patrick is using sex to get over Brad, but it's not quite working the way he intended. Is Stephen Chbosky trying to send a message here, or is he just telling it like it is?
Quote 77
I couldn't really tell if [Sam] was happy or sad, but it was enough just to see her and know she was there. (4.13.51)
One of the first things Charlie tries to figure out when he sees a person is if they're happy or sad—as though that's all that matters. Why is this so important to him?
Quote 78
"I thought that your being sad was much more important to me than Craig not being your boyfriend anymore." (4.14.25)
We all know the type: the ones who treat sad people as very fragile beings that need to be protected and coddled. Charlie feels that he has to act in these people's best interests—which is great—but he just seems to make assumptions as to what those interests are.
Quote 79
I like to read books twice. (1.3.2)
After the revelation at the end of Perks, you might want to read it a second time, too. Trust us—you'll see a ton more the second time around.
Quote 80
[To Kill a Mockingbird] is now my favorite book of all time, but then again, I always think that until I read another book. (1.4.2)
Confession: the same thing happens to us. Our favorite books are The Giving Tree, The Road, and Invisible Man, but tomorrow? It's anyone's guess. And you know what? We're not complaining about a world where there are enough great books to keep changing our minds.