Choices Quotes in Eclipse

Does making a good choice imply a rational weighing of pros and cons? Or does it mean being emotionally true to yourself?

Does loving someone mean to protect him or her from a hurtful reality? Or does love mean that you always tell them the truth, regardless of the pain involved?

Bella seems to think that she doesn't have to choose sides. But if it came to a war between vampires and werewolves, would she actually remain neutral?