If I Stay Theme of Choices

When you're a teenager, you have a lot of different choices to make. Choosing extracurricular activities, finding the right part-time job, and figuring out what college to attend can all be tough decisions. But none of them are life-and-death situations. In If I Stay, Mia does have a life-or-death decision to make—the choice between life and death. It's a choice very few people expect to make, especially at such a young age, but it provides the book's big conflict. Which will she choose?

Questions About Choices

  1. Does Mia actually have a choice whether she lives or dies?
  2. What will Mia choose after she wakes up—Juilliard or Adam?
  3. Would Adam really choose Mia over his music career? Would this choice make either of them happy?