Jealousy Quotes in The Art of Fielding

How we cite our quotes: (Chapter.Paragraph)

Quote #10

"David, I'm leaving you because you're controlling and unreasonable and debilitatingly jealous. You don't want me to work, don't want me in school, don't even want me to learn how to drive." (42.40)

We don't get to know much about Pella's husband David. Do you believe he's as jealous as she says he is? If so, why does she end up with Mike, who is capable of similar destructive levels of jealousy? Is she fine with it as long as it doesn't directly impact her?