The Returning Theme of Tradition and Customs

Remember when Pin has a period ceremony? Or how about when Gyaar gives Graceful a mirror as a wedding present? The Returning is all about tradition and principle, but not the kind we have today in 21st century America—we're talking about the kind of principles that held together a tribe of warriors and farmers in a mythical medieval world (where the story is set). You know, principles like never steal, let your dad chose your future hubby, and create bonds with men who save your life.

Okay, some of those still apply today, but not all of them. The point is, the story shows us what it's like to live in a world where customs and traditions have huge importance to the characters.

Questions About Tradition and Customs

  1. What are the most significant differences in customs between medieval culture in the book and the culture that you live in? Is there anything traditional in the book you wish still happened today?
  2. How do medieval warrior kings maintain their power and ensure the loyalty of their lords? What must Lord Ryuu do, and what is expected of his son and subjects in return?
  3. Why do the Uplanders and Downlanders have ceremonies to mark youngsters passing into adulthood? Do you think Pin enjoys her ceremony, or is just weirded out? What are they celebrating?
  4. What is the traditional role of women in this medieval warrior and farmer culture? What functions do women perform in the narrative of The Returning?

Chew on This

Try on an opinion or two, start a debate, or play the devil’s advocate.

Traditions threaten the freedom to choose more than rules do in The Returning.

The characters value tradition over personal choices because it's the only thing that remains the same after the war.