Boy Meets Boy Love Quotes

How we cite our quotes: (Chapter.Paragraph)

Quote #1

With some breakups, all you can think about afterwards is how badly it ended and how much the other person hurt you. With others, you become sentimental for the good times and lose track of what went wrong. When I think of Kyle, the beginnings and the endings are all mixed up. (3.26)

Love is all about flip sides of one coin. For example, it's normal to intensely love and hate the person who just dumped you. "The beginnings and endings are all mixed up" is another way of saying it.

Quote #2

He's glad I found him. I'm glad I found him. We are not afraid to say this… I am not used to plainspoken, honest truth. (4.60)

It shouldn't be an anomaly when someone decides to be honest, but unfortunately it is. There are bestselling books that teach both guys and girls how to play games to snag a mate. Most of these games involve pretending you don't like someone to get them to like you—in other words, being mean. Why do people think this is a good idea?

Quote #3

Now I don't want time to stop. I want it to fast-forward an hour. Noah has become my until. (4.67)

"My until" is a poetic way of saying the guy I can't wait to see. This is one of the things that makes a good writer good—they say ordinary things in extraordinary ways.

Quote #4

They started going out in second grade and haven't been apart since. They are the one-percent of one-percent who meet early on and never need to find anybody else. There's no way to explain it. (7.25)

Paul's friends Steven and Kate have been together so long people call them Seven and Eight. True love in childhood does happen… just like it happens that some people get struck by lightning or hit by falling pianos.

Quote #5

It's not that I didn't want to kiss Noah. And I think he wanted to kiss me. But we left the moment to silence instead. The promise of a kiss will carry us forward. (9.7)

You know how sometimes, toward the end of a really great date, you get slightly anxious to get home, be alone, and remember it? We're not the only ones who do that, are we? Well this is kind of the same thing. It's another version of "my until."

Quote #6

Since he made me feel invisible, I spent months wishing he'd disappear. Now it feels like I've gotten half my wish. His spirit is gone. His body remains. (9.19)

How many times have you seen someone put their ex on a pedestal after a breakup? They start idealizing some great person who didn't exist, and you're thinking, surely you don't mean that jerk with the bad table manners? When Paul sees Kyle looking miserable, he realizes that sometimes the person who dumped you doesn't move on to a fabulous new life.

Quote #7

I lean forward and kiss him. The flowers crush between our shirts. I touch his lips, I breathe him in. I close my eyes, I open them. He is surprised, I can tell. I'm surprised too. He kisses me back with a kiss like a smile. (10.10)

We'll go ahead and say it: David Levithan is a poet. His similes and metaphors make us want to hug him.

Quote #8

"He was my first boyfriend, and I made him my everything—he was my new life, my new love, my new compass point. I guess that's the danger with firsts—you lose all sense of proportion." (10.72)

Three of the four main characters in Boy Meets Boy—Paul, Noah, and Joni—are dealing with the fallout of first love. Ted and Kyle are dealing with it too, moping around on the sidelines, while Chuck's hurting Ted's first love (Joni) to get back at his first love (Infinite Darlene) for rejecting him. If the circumstances surrounding Tony's lack of a first love (and by circumstances we mean homophobic parents) weren't so awful, we might think he was lucky to be spared the drama.

Quote #9

"I don't know what the word is for what I was to you. I didn't break up with you the right way. Something inside me flipped and I… I couldn't stand you. It wasn't your fault. But I couldn't stand you. I needed to… I needed to obliterate you. Not you personally. But the thought of you. Your presence." (12.18)

Back to that different-sides-of-the-same-coin thing. What is it that makes love turn into disgust, indifference, or even hate, seemingly overnight, and often without warning?

Quote #10

It's a fine line between love and stalking. I decide to walk it. (25.1)

Australian comedian Tim Minchin tells a story about guy who asked him if believed in love, despite scientific evidence of its existence. Minchin's answer was, "Sure, I believe in love. Love without evidence is… stalking."