How we cite our quotes: (Chapter.Stanza)
Quote #1
Those men, [Mr. Noble and Mr. Romney] / they used to be best friends. / Now they can't be civil with each other. (2.4)
If you recall, Mr. Noble and Mr. Romney are the guys who were archival rivals in the rabbit wars. Evidently, the harsh conditions of the land have the ability to tear apart friendships as well as lives.
Quote #2
We haven't had a good crop in three years, / not since the bounty of '31 / and we're all whittled down to the bone these days, / even Ma, with her new round belly, / but still, / when the committee came asking, / Ma donated. (8.1)
While hard times often inspire greed, Ma demonstrates here that it's not all bad. She knows that compared to others, her family is well off and chooses to have compassion for those in need, even if it means her own family being less comfortable.
Quote #3
Ma starts to quaking, but she won't let Daddy see. / Instead, she goes out to the chickens / and / her anger, / simmering over like a pot in an empty kitchen, / boils itself down doing chores. (21.11)
Even before her death, Ma sets an example for Billie Jo of how to show patience and compassion to others. Rather than pick a fight with Daddy after he rejects her idea for the pond, she spends the negative energy doing something positive for her family so she can forgive him and move on.
Quote #4
I can almost forgive him the taking of Ma's money, / I can almost forgive him his night in Guymon, / getting drunk. / But as long as I live, / no matter how big a hole he digs, / I can't forgive him that pail of kerosene / left by the side of the stove. (42.7)
One of the reasons Billie Jo resents being blamed for the accident is that she feels it was actually Daddy's fault—although she threw the pail, he was the one who left it by the stove to begin with. Just as the women cleaning her house point a finger at Billie Jo, she copes with the tragedy by pointing it right back at him.
Quote #5
Miss Freeland said they [the Williams family] could stay / as long as they wanted. (63.8)
Miss Freeland opening her classroom up to a family of total strangers in need of shelter is one of the book's great acts of compassion, showing the sacrifice many people made during the Depression to improve the wellbeing of others.
Quote #6
If it hadn't been for the company, / this storm would have broken us / completely, / broken us more thoroughly than / the plow had broken the Oklahoma sod, / more thoroughly than my burns / had broken the ease of my hands. / But for the sake of the crowd, / and the hospitality of the home that sheltered us, / we held on, / and waited. (85.13)
When the funeral procession gets stuck in the book's worst dust storm, a woman opens her home to the entire crowd. That takes a lot of selflessness—just imagine having twenty or thirty dusty, dirty people into your home, spur of the moment. Her act of compassion, though, perhaps saves them from emotionally falling apart in the storm's dark circumstances.
Quote #7
On the back of the photograph, / in pencil, / was the address of his family in / Moline, Kansas. / First chance, I'd send the picture back, / let his wife know he was still alive. (100.9)
The disappearance of the man Billie Jo meets on the train (and her biscuits) carries some ambiguity. Regardless of his intentions though, Billie Jo feels moved to return his family picture to his wife and let her know he's okay. It could be that she's thinking of the wild boy who came to her family's farm and how concerned Ma seemed to be for his mother. The act of kindness will keep his wife from concern about her husband's whereabouts.
Quote #8
As we walk together, / side by side, / in the swell of dust, / I am forgiving him, step by step, / for the pail of kerosene. / As we walk together, / side by side, / in the sole-deep dust, / I am forgiving myself / for all the rest. (102.3)
Billie Jo leaving home kind of gives her dad a wakeup call about how bad things have been going since Ma died. As he reaches out to her on their way home from the train station, they begin to bridge the blame between them with forgiveness.
Quote #9
Louise is back at the house. / She wanted to come / but this is Ma's place, / Ma's grave, / Franklin's, too, / and Louise has no business here. / She wants to come everywhere with us. / Well, I won't let her. / Not everywhere. (105.1)
The process of forgiveness often involves letting other people into your life, much the way Billie Jo must learn to accept Louise as part of Daddy's life.